Now, i promise my blog won’t turn into one of those that have survey’s and quizes and all that jazz. But I’m never one to speak up, so this works well for me. So, here goes:
You can say anything when you’ve got nothing to lose.
1. List some things you want to say to 20 different people but you know you never will.
2. Don’t say who they are. Change the order of who you would normally put 1st. mix it up.
3. Feel free to comment, but don’t confirm or answer anything.
4. Never discuss it again.
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1. Grow up please. If only you knew how much I looked up to you, and the impact you’re having on your family’s lives…
2. I know you think I forget about you sometimes. I don’t, but I am growing up and unfortunately grown-ups have a lot to do. But know I love you!
3. You said it would be different. That things would be better now. I’m very sorry, and honestly not that surprised to say things aren’t any different at all. But hey, I tried…..
4. I’d argue whether or not I deserve it, but i told you once that you were a gift. I really mean that too, you do make everyday very special. And although I rarely tell you, I talk about you constantly: about how you can pick up on my wants and needs better than any one else ever, and how you always have the right words to make me smile. Please know I love you more than anything and not a second passes that I’m not thinking about you.
5. I miss you so much. I hope you know that not a day goes by that I don’t think of you.
6. Thank you for sticking by me for so long. You’ve been there to cheer me up when I wasn’t happy, share some of my happiest moments, and laugh at my not so bright moments. I know we don’t get to spend as much time together anymore. But know I love you, and I’m very grateful to have you in my life.
7. I’m sorry I blew up at you the way I did. But, that was about 2 years of pain built up. I’m happy to say, I don’t think about you every day anymore (yes, I did before, although I’d never admit it.), and I’m completely heeled.
8. Excuse me. I do a lot more than you think. I really should be first on the list, but somehow I ended up third???
9. Stop living off of other people, and living in the past. We all gave you the steps you needed to get you out of the hole you dug. But for some reason, you came about half way out and started digging again. You know we’ll always be here for you, but you can’t keep doing this – you’re hurting more people than you think.
10. I considered you all my family for a long long time. I’m sorry things didn’t work out the way you all hoped, but know I do care a lot about you. Although it’s very awkward for me to reach out, when I really really want to.
11. Yeah, things didn’t quite happen the way I told you. I think you’d be very surprised to hear the differences, but you’ll never know.
12. I’m sorry you have a picture of some one else. But read what’s intended for number 11, and you’ll know there’s more.
13. Who the hell peed in your cheerios? You wonder why you don’t have any friends…… I have few ideas.
14. I know I make it very easy to, but please don’t walk all over me.
15. Congratulations!!! I know no one knows yet. So this is an awesome way for me to tell the world, but not actually tell the world.
16. It’s about time. When I heard the news, I couldn’t help but smile. We’re all very happy for you, and I’ll say it again. It’s about time.
17. I’m sorry we don’t spend as much time together as we use to.
18. I know I was out of my league, but I thought you knew that too. I wasn’t doing what you thought…. but I’m glad that ended. And YES you are a regret.
19. ha ha you are such a moron. If only you knew a “shut the hell up” ring when you saw it. You are seriously a free maid, but I promise we won’t say, “we told you so”.
20. I know it’s awkward when I come to visit. I don’t come around as much as I’d like to, and when I do stop by I’m always on the run. But honestly, when I’m there, I get more mad about your environment. I can’t believe this is how they let you live. But we did give you the option to leave that. I’m sorry you said no. Please know I love you and think about you often.